Shopping for a prom dress was perhaps the most complicated and stressful event to date. After visiting three malls (one of which I went to twice), searching through 15 stores, shopping for nine hours, sipping three venti coffees, and trying on 25 dresses, I finally decided on "the one."
We began the day at Saks and Neimans, where I went in with an attitude that I would find something on sale. I was wrong There were no pretty sale dresses in sight (or out of sight, either) and the only dresses that appealed to me were in the $500 range, which I bluntly refuse to spend on a prom dress.
Next, we combed through mall stores like J. Crew, Banana Republic, Cache, BCBG, and Forever 21, where I couldn't get over the a) lack of selection, b) tacky materials, and c) overabundance of beading, sequins, and all around "sparkle." I got the very same vibe from Lord & Taylor and Nordies.
We decided to head towards Saks' Off Fifth and a bundle of outlet stores, where we were even less impressed with the selection and even more horrified by tacky polyester rhinestone-covered so-called gowns. Ick.
Feeling completely hopeless (I don't have to go to my senior prom, do I?) and quite frankly out-of-options, we reluctantly headed back to the first location. My mom encouraged me to have a completely open mind: try on everything and don't zoom-in on the price tags, she said. Though it's hard for my sometimes-obsessive sale shopping mind, I agreed.
So at Saks, I tried on at least half a dozen dresses; I fell in love with three of them. They were all very different: one was an adorable, one was sassy, and one was, what I dubbed, "goddess-like." After much thought and several rounds of trying each on ("Wait, I like this one best"... "No, actually I think I love this one most of all"..."Actually, this one is perfect, isn't it?"), I finally decided on this gorgeous goddess-y seafoam gown for several reasons. I am crazy about the color, the intricate pearl beading, and the floor-dusting hem (it's not floor-dusting on the leggy Saks model, but it's truly sweeping on my short 5'4 frame). Plus, I love the fact that I can wear flats, pearl earrings, and no necklace.
After an adventure like that, let's just say I'm ecstatic that this is my very last prom. And let me apologize for being MIA this week, but, hel-loh, it was my spring break!
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